There's 4 wires:
1) Power - Switched 12V source
2) Ground - again...ground it.
3) Sig. In - This is the output from your signal convertor screwed into your transmission. Out of trans signal convertor - into the dakota digital box.
4) OUT 1 - Make sure you use OUT 1, otherwise, the calibration will be so far off, the speedo will barely move.
Take the output from OUT 1 and tap into the 3rd wire on the top of your odometer harness. It is blue with a red strip. This is what will make your odo & speedo work.
Go test it out

You might have to do some small manual calibration, using the "up" and "down" buttons on your dakota box...but that's it!